Author: Lin Dai Ling Awu Ge, who has been preparing for the interior design exam with me, has been engaged in interior design for more than ten years. She is an honest and honest interior designer who has maintained a friend-like relationship with the homeowners even after several years of work. Avago's studio is very refreshing, unless you talk to the customer, the big desktop has only one notebook and the picture you need at work. This year is the fifth year of his sleep in the sofa. "There is still a way to sleep in the first year, but then more and more things are more than what I can pack." A Wu Ge family of three, the status of the home is the bottom . Wife is busy but not good at picking up things. In addition to attending classes, the younger daughter of the country has to practice piano and dance tutoring. "The daughter is very good at scattering things everywhere." Before going to school every day, Awuge and his wife would have to help her find out Homework, pencils, textbooks, etc. in the debris pile. Under the blessing of the daughter and his wife, the deduction of the public home of about 22 pings has been chaotic. "I want them to sort out the impossible, I try to organize myself silently, but after finishing each time, it will recur in about two or three days... I only ask two of the living room three-seat sofas are my bed, nothing can Occupied." The desire for simple life cannot be implemented at home, so Abu Ge moved to help design the customer's home, but not every household can improve the quality of life after completion. "Some owners have a good habit. As long as the house is remodeled, the quality of living will be better." Awu Ge said, "But I found that if it was caused by man-made devastated home, even if I helped them solve the problem, Housing conditions, planning ample storage space, it is difficult to change this fact. Some home cabinets are empty, the ground and the desktop are full." Designers can help the owner to transform the house itself, but it is difficult to transform the life of the owner habit. I originally thought that after the renovation of the old house, everyone can live a happy and happy life from now on. Before and after there are everafter. In the relationship between "people", "things" and "things", with the evolution of the times, people and things seem to be inversely proportional. In the early days when the number of family members increased rapidly, five or six brothers and sisters crowded the big shop. The family was full of people, and a family of seven or eight was normal. Everyone has very few personal items, and almost all of them are shared except for the exclusive collections of the elders. Nowadays, there are fewer people, but the number of personal possessions is more and the ideas are much more complicated. The home that should have let us relax, things have become too full. When you find these problems, do you choose to complain that the house is too small to change houses, or to find a designer to re-decorate and increase the storage space? But the space is designed to be great. If you don't adjust your habit of using space, you can only improve your quality of life by half, even after you have stayed for a year or two, and return to the previous quality. In fact, you have a simpler, safer and healthier choice: from the beginning of the transformation of people, to the transformation of the home space! You are a person who wants to live a simple life, but the family is exactly the opposite. What should I do? You can still start with your own room, followed by a public space such as a living room or dining room. As long as it is organized at this stage and insists that the public space must not occupy the position of private goods, there is an opportunity for change. Start with your own room, followed by a public space such as a living room or dining room. As long as it is organized at this stage and insists that the public space must not occupy the position of private goods, there is a chance of change (Photo courtesy of Lin Lingling) On the sofa, I left the magazine and the book, a bunch of bags hanging on the back of the dining chair, and the reading glasses on the table, who didn’t know who was... The next day, I dropped the new newspaper in yesterday’s magazine.... It’s been a long time. The family believes that anyway, as long as the garbage and snacks are placed, they will disappear magically the next day. And as you follow up, you get more and more fire. A few times, I went to the government to consult the experience of the survey. For families with messy items, if the whole family has no feelings, they can only verbally ask them to sort them out. It is difficult for salted fish to turn over. At least one person in the family realizes that the family is chaotic and tries to change, so that it is possible to reverse the quality of life of the whole family. Usually the first thing I want to change is my wife (but the most likely to be a stack of things is usually a wife, occasionally the elders lead), as for other family members, from "reluctantly willing to cooperate" to "the least willing to cooperate", in order, children, partners Elders, if the partners take the lead and unite with the elders and children, it will be even harder. Under such conditions, there are examples of failures and successes. The example of failure is that the wife has the will to change, and she has also tidyed up her own items, but she accidentally touched the mine. She helped them sort out the items without the consent of her husband and children, and lost what she thought was unnecessary. The result was almost a family revolution. To this end, she can only put aside the big plan, first repairing the cracks between the family. Try not to lose your family's things without your consent. I have observed that people who can successfully promote the whole family to start collecting things are mostly throwing their own things and not losing their family members. Then, to help the family to collect things, but not for the purposeless collection, but locked in the public space. I have met in the shortest time, half a year, to change the habit of the whole family, is a science park software engineer living in Zhubei. The first time I went to her house, the most impressive thing was that there were all kinds of Chinese teacups, teapots, teas, tea books, etc. on the living room table and dining table. Her 70-year-old parents are tea people, like to hold tea parties, and also participate in tea-tasting activities everywhere, so the family is filled with tea sets everywhere, and they have only lived here for less than three years, but they look like 囤It was crowded like 20 years. The daughter lived with her parents to indicate the plan. (Hand-painted by the antelope, excerpted from "starting from the break, build your new home!") In the end, my daughter couldn’t stand it anymore. I decided to take a few days to sort out. The engineer really focused on efficiency and effectiveness. She began to sort out the tea sets in the dining room, kitchen, and living room. Except for the two groups that parents really use, the rest, she put them back to their parents' rooms. (Please see the diagram of the match, in order to ensure privacy, the plane in the picture is not the family) She said that after seeing the Japanese TV drama "My home is empty," she decided to follow the same way, so that the public space, that is, at least the living room, dining room and kitchen, should not be occupied by personal belongings. "In case they forget it, forget things in the living room?" I asked. “Immediately, immediately, and quickly... put things back in their room,†she replied. “The whole family only has to follow a rule: public space is not allowed to pile up. Personal items, like reading glasses, are brought back to the room after use.†"At first they will not be used to it. I often anger my parents. I really feel sorry afterwards." Although I couldn’t feel the daughter’s apology (laughs), the second time I visited, the living room restaurant was really refreshing, just like I just stayed in. I saw the hostess’s carefully selected table and face. (I was covered by a pile of tea trays), there is a sweet nose that finally meets. "For a while, my parents' room was full of things they were reluctant to lose. I was really sad in my heart, but I have to implement it. Let them feel the difference." "What difference?" “Their rooms are crowded and chaotic, but they are very refreshing when they come to the restaurant. This space contrast is too big. It turns out that they like to stay in the restaurant far more than in the room.†The daughter said, “First me. Dad couldn't help but started to organize his own room. About one-fifth of the original thing was cleared. Although it was not much, he continued to move, so I was very satisfied!†Later, her mother followed up. At home, the family began to develop the habit of keeping the restaurant away from personal belongings. Stages 1, 2, and 3 symbolize the order in which the homeowner organizes the space at home. (Photo courtesy of Lin Lingling) Sparta's way of managing and emptying public space, although the old man confided with me a little wronged, but after all, is his daughter, venting it will be fine. Soon, they found that such a principle would greatly improve the quality of life. Now the two old-fashioned activities are done outside as much as possible, or borrowing space from the building where they live. As long as a new tea set is brought back, it will be resold or transferred. The two old people are also embarrassed to tell the visitor not to send it again. This will also lead to the break of the break-off--breaking the door without the consent. The goal of the item. Therefore, if someone asks me now, if the family is not willing to sort out the things in the house, they cannot change. I will ask them to try this after finishing their room: Then organize the public space and set the principle that “public space must not be occupied by personal itemsâ€. Those who uphold this principle may be the target of the public at first, but as long as the family is aware of the space, they will soon discover the benefits of such a change. (Note: The above method is not suitable for families with hoarding patients, and patients with hoarding disease need to seek the assistance of professional medical personnel.) About the author: Lin Yiling Record friendly living and design and transform your home with a simple and balanced lifestyle. He is the author of "Want to live for a lifetime" and "Space for telling stories". Blog: Good house, good life, good life http://alingling.blogspot.com/ Fan page: Lin Yiling https:// Book introduction Start from the break, build your new home! :Renovation of the house starts from the transformation of the people, and the house is separated from the simple life + universal green house, eliminating the once annoying overhaul! Author: Lin Dai Ling Publishing House: Freedom Hill Publication Date: 2016/09/07
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